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Change Is Good!

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When you are changing your life you always have those nay sayers standing around talking.  You know when you try to change you the slightest thing people have always got something to say.  Like when you change your route to work that crazy carpool guy say, "Why you changing the route? The other way is shorter." Or when you change your style. You know when you start wearing boots all the time. That stanky co-worker says, "Who are you trying to impress?"  Just look at them with the a blank stare as if you never even  heard them.

The problem is people don't want you to change because they are too scare to change them self.  When you change you kind of force the people around you to change by association.  Therefore, the surrounding people are going to do whatever they can to keep you in the box they are comfortable with.  Don't let them to control you.  Don't be held back because the people around you are punks and want to keep living the same life day after day until death.

Change is good.  We have to change or we become stagnant. Stagnation kills the soul.  When the soul is dead then the future is bleak.  Step out the box and change.

6 comments:

Nikki said...

I totally agree....fear is usually the reason why people don't like change. Being complacent doesn't take any effort. I embrace change! Although sometimes it can be uncomfortable at first it's the only way to grow!

Lifewithpurpose said...

Nikki, Fear has kept me from doing a lot in the past. That is why talk so much about change and pushing people to keep moving forward despite their situation. It is so important.

TheProDiva said...

I agree 100%! Also, your decision to make a change is YOUR decision, and no one else's. If others are uncomfortable with your change, they can jump ship and you can ride on out! Change is not only good, but it is a necessary part of the act of growing as a person. Great post!

Lifewithpurpose said...

ProDiva You are my girl. You are so real. I love the fact that you said "they can jump ship and you can ride on out!" Love it. But you are so right!

Ms. Positivity said...

Ohhhh you just know I love this! Heck yeah change is good and lets not give a hot kitty who dont like it....We want to change and we will. I have had plenty women say imma lose weight....their idea, I did it they didnt....oh girllll you look good! Yes thanks for the idea....but when it was just them it was all the hype!! We will be fabu with all the change we want....lets show them just how gd change can be!

Lifewithpurpose said...

Right Ms Positivity People want to change but find it is too hard and hate on others when they do. Love your holds bar attitude.

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