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Stop Judging

Often people think they are beyond reproach.  I mean that to say people can be so judgemental.  I hate that.  At the same time, I can be a little judgemental at times.  I think that is how we are trained to be in this society.  Think about it. 

As a kid we live our life making sure we try to fit in. You know you go to school and you try make sure you're able to play in the sandbox with the other cool kids.  Then when you get older you wanna make jokes and laugh with all the kids.  You try your best to not to be the kid that they call weird or nerdy.  That whole process continues on even in adulthood.  The funny thing is the thing we keep running from is the thing we push on others. Many times without regard to that person's feelings or even taking the chance to get know the person.  We figure if they are not in my click then they must be weird.  Really?

We feel like if you don't look like me or dress like me or talk like me then you got issues.  I mean cause I am the coolest thing out there. Are you?  We place judgment on people for the dumbest of things and then don't want the same in return.  Seriously?

We can't accept advice or a kind word from someone outside our click cause "I mean really do they really know what they are talking about." 

Beyond that I think we should stop looking at what we think the a person should be and be accepting of people even if they are outside of our ideas.  Stop thinking that if a person is different it makes them any less then you just different.  If we were all alike it would be a boring world. 

Clear your mind right now and stop judging people.


TheProDiva said...

Great post. I try my best not to be judgmental. But when I am, I check myself quick! LOL! "Judge not lest ye be judged!"

Lifewithpurpose said...

I know right. I feel like dang what can I say about about pepople? I think that is something we all have to work on.

Brenda said...

Great post! I've been trying really hard lately to not be so judgmental. It is a hard habit to break but I'm doing better at it. Like you said, we are trained at a young age. Sad

Lifewithpurpose said...

Brenda I think we all struggle with being judgemental. It is hard to break but you must push past that. But if find yourself juding don't be hard on yourself.

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